Types of love can anyone help!!!!?

the only help you need is the help you can give yourself. Often, as we grow up and have relationships, we get caught up in emotional energy. It can lift you up high and drop you to tears...and the swings can be damaging. Look at it as an energy flow. When there is a couple in a really good healthy relationship, there is a peaceful glow in their faces. The flow is supportive and peaceful. An unhealthy relationship is when the couple is either raging or completely all over each other and it changes all the time. This is when each person is relying on the other person to feel happy and whole, the moment they feel depleted of the high feeling they do whatever is necessary to get attention and thus energy from anywhere they can. The reason this is not healthy is because it is not based on a love, but a need. Love is a source of energy, need is a vacuum of energy. So a husband an wife can be either, a man and mistress can be either, but it is most likely to be "need" since it is based on an lust and also reliant on lies and deceit. And hate filled love is simply people who have a deep inner pain, causing a feeling of not be loved, and they need, like an addiction, to feed the void, even temporarily...so it is like being on a see-saw with a person that is also engaged for the same reason. The symptoms you discribed are based on a pattern you learnt either in your childhood or in your first relationships. The good news is that you are obviously insightful enough to reach through the pain to seek answers. This is the first step towards finding a great life with everything in perfect balance including lots of love for you. Yes, you will find it. But today you have to continue to draw insight from this relationship and find the strenght to break the cycle. It is an opportunity to heal yourself and get out...deal with your inner pain, learn to love and accept yourself, and only then can you find that healthy long loving relationship.